Toi et Moi Birthstone Ring

Toi et Moi — "you and me" in French. Two stones, two shapes, one ring. A design that has symbolised connection and duality since the days of Napoleon and Joséphine. Now reimagined for the modern woman who wears her meaning quietly on her hand.

The Toi et Moi Birthstone Ring by FeelAmara pairs a bold 9.8mm emerald-cut green zirconia with a delicate teardrop clear zirconia — one stone on each end of an open gold band. The contrast is intentional: different shapes, different colours, different energies — held together by the same band. It's a ring with a story built in.

Why you'll love it

• Adjustable open band — fits any finger, any size, without needing to know your ring size. Simply ease the band to your perfect fit.
• Waterproof & tarnish-resistant — 18K gold PVD coating over 304 stainless steel holds up through daily wear, water, and sweat without losing its warmth.
• Lightweight at just 4g — despite the visual impact of two stones, it sits featherlight on the finger. Comfortable enough for all-day wear.
• Hypoallergenic — safe for sensitive skin, no irritation even with extended wear.
• Rich emerald colour — the 9.8mm green zirconia has the deep, saturated hue of a fine emerald, at a fraction of the price.

Wear it your way

Wear it on the index or middle finger where both stones sit fully on display — the asymmetric design was made to be seen. The open-band silhouette means it layers beautifully with plain gold bands on adjacent fingers without competing. It's bold enough to wear alone as your single statement ring, refined enough to stack into a curated ring party. The green and clear stone combination pairs naturally with gold, neutral tones, and deep jewel-toned outfits alike.

More than just a ring

The Toi et Moi design has long been given as a symbol of two souls — a romantic gift, a friendship token, or a self-purchase that carries personal meaning. The green stone can represent a May birthstone (emerald), making it a deeply personal birthday gift. Whatever meaning you bring to it, the ring holds it beautifully.

The perfect gift

Arrives in eco-friendly, gift-ready packaging — no wrapping needed. Ideal for May birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine's Day, or any moment that deserves something more meaningful than a generic gift. The adjustable band means sizing is never a concern.

Product details

• Type: Toi et Moi open ring
• Material: 304 stainless steel
• Plating: 18K gold PVD-coated
• Stone 1: 9.8mm emerald-cut green cubic zirconia
• Stone 2: Teardrop clear cubic zirconia
• Weight: 4g
• Size: Adjustable open band — one size fits all
• Finish: Polished gold tone
• Style: Romantic, dual-stone, statement-dainty

Sizing & fit

The open band adjusts gently to your finger. Ease it gradually and minimally to protect the stone settings — avoid bending at the stone ends. Fits most ring sizes from XS to L comfortably.

Care instructions

Safe to wear in water — pat dry after prolonged exposure. Store flat in the pouch provided. Avoid bending the band at the stone settings repeatedly. Keep away from perfume and harsh chemicals to preserve the emerald-green zirconia colour and gold finish.

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